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this pebbly shore of Alegria broke my itinerary |
I travel alone because I wanna own my time.
I am a terrible companion. I am whimsical and impatient at
times.
I don’t want to be pressured by fixed itineraries. I have a good job that allows me to spend as much time as having fun requires. I don’t wanna be woken up by my alarm. I don’t want the assembly time to drag me out of bed and I don’t wanna waste time waiting for latecomers at the terminal. I wanna go to the bus station at whatever time I want. I wanna board whatever bus I want. I don’t care where it’s going as long as I can leave the city. I can find fun in any place. I wanna wait for two hours for an air-conditioned bus without anyone telling me ‘Ang arte mo naman!’ And I wanna go home when I can say ‘Let’s call it a weekend!’ Yes fun travelling is selfish. And it should be because each of us has a different taste and a different mood at different times.
I don’t want to be pressured by fixed itineraries. I have a good job that allows me to spend as much time as having fun requires. I don’t wanna be woken up by my alarm. I don’t want the assembly time to drag me out of bed and I don’t wanna waste time waiting for latecomers at the terminal. I wanna go to the bus station at whatever time I want. I wanna board whatever bus I want. I don’t care where it’s going as long as I can leave the city. I can find fun in any place. I wanna wait for two hours for an air-conditioned bus without anyone telling me ‘Ang arte mo naman!’ And I wanna go home when I can say ‘Let’s call it a weekend!’ Yes fun travelling is selfish. And it should be because each of us has a different taste and a different mood at different times.
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the sunset that made the trees in the Alegria shores turn as red as maple |
I wanna decide for myself.
If I wanna stop, no one will pressure me to keep going. If I wanna go, I won’t
have to wait for any slowpokes. If my instincts tell me to pursue a certain
trail at a fork, no skeptic is gonna tell me ‘Sigurado ka ba jan?’ and put the
responsibility of the team’s safety on me. If I wanna sleep outdoors, I don’t
have to worry about a companion who can’t live without a grand toilet! If I
wanna commune with the locals no one will grumble over the unfulfilled photo
ops of the sunset at the campsite.
It is in owning my time and my decision where I get to fully
enjoy the place!
Two weeks ago, during my solo trip to Alegria, the plan was
to leave some stuff at a local’s house and camp at Windows campsite, then run
early in the morning on Sunday. When I got to Alegria at around 12nn, it was really
hot. I found the beach inviting so I took a dip. When I got to the locals’
house I suddenly felt interested in their stories and I thought that sleeping
in one of the ‘kamaligs’ was a bright idea. So I dropped the planned itinerary.
I ran 4km on the nearby hills and late in the afternoon, I went to the town center
and just observed how people lived their lives. I spent the night at the ‘kamalig’
of one family in spite of the woman’s insistence that I sleep indoors. I
love sleeping in open shelters. The following morning, I traversed Mt Lanaya
completing a whole loop from Tumandok at 7am to the summit then to Minag-a then
through the highway and back to Tumandok at 10.
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It is in travelling alone where I can peacefully enjoy simple foods and waste time watching people at a park |